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First Person: Point of View
Early to Rise
Douglas Barry
10/01/2004

I think the CEOs who wrote to me are no different than anyone else—except that they are connected to their passion. There is a surf shop near my home run by a man who has become a neighborhood treasure. He knows everything about surfing, but never tries to hustle his customers or hurry them out of his store. He probably makes a fair living, but, more importantly, he owns the spark. Money cannot buy the spark, nor can we will ourselves into having it.

Not too long ago, my sister, Jillian, desperately wanted a dog of her own. After numerous requests, she finally cleared my parents’ permission hurdle, only to make several flawed adoptions. One puppy was so sick that our vet offered to go to the breeder himself to reclaim her money and secure care for the puppy. When Jill finally found an excellent Chihuahua breeder and got the perfect puppy, I could see that the breeder was great because she had passion. Each puppy was special, and she carefully chose each new home. Now this breeder is getting calls for her puppies from all over the world. While she may not be rich, she is wealthy in ways many others will never be. Pat Croce, former president of the Philadelphia 76ers and a man who can get enthused about taking out the trash, described this when he wrote to me, “We make a living by what we get paid; we make a life by what we give.”

Right now, I am passionate about life and where I want my life to go. This is where we all start. Unfortunately, this is where too few of us end up when we become adults. Jacques Nasser, former president and CEO of Ford Motor, seems to have ended up this way. He wrote, “I believe the people who are most successful are those who do what really interests them. There is no substitute for energy and enthusiasm.”

So what happens to so many of us? How do we lose our way? Who or what diverts us from following our passion, and leads us into going through the motions? Somewhere along the line, we lose sight of our true desires, compromise our interests and settle for less than what we originally hoped. We grow up. Here, then, is the question: Can a person grow up and not lose his sense of wonder and empowerment? I hope I can.
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